Troyandi In rich families there are conflicts between adult children and fathers. Most often this is a conflict between an adult daughter and mother.

What do the blues worry about, call them for their lives, their interests, the stench disappears

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, The old men are already trying to stick their heads under the super cap and the welds.

And the axis of mothers and daughters on the right is different, they often make claims one after another.

Why are you so excited? How it was before We, people, depend on the light of nature.

How will we be there?

The babies grow up until they reach the size of an adult and begin to eat and eat their own hedgehogs. After this, the fathers separate from them and the children begin to live in the peace of life. Fathers no longer communicate with their offspring.

They begin to have other turbos, the female again breeds babies, benefits from them, steals them, and begins to give birth to brown newborns, so that they can get the stinks themselves and smell about themselves.

The same picture existed among the people's middle class.

The women soon chewed their children, nursed them, looked after them, taught them the skills necessary for life.

Fathers (often mothers) are actively involved in the lives of children.

They respect that they have the right to tell them how to live, who to choose as partners, if they have children, what to spend money on, etc.

Fathers give endlessly, not realizing that their children are mature people who live their lives, their share and want to dispose of it according to the authorities.

Mothers take the time to step out of the role of mentor and become a tactful friend who does not give in unless asked.

In fact, children like their parents only need one thing: to know that they are alive, healthy, prosperous, do not demand, to live their lives and be satisfied with it.

And it’s important to know that the fathers are ready to give up everything and come to the rescue if their children call out to them.

And when the fathers begin to climb out of endless joys, they come up with their thoughts in the drive, even though they are killing their children.

If you feel that your children's behavior is wrong, please inform yourself of the benefits of your counseling.

You gave them the butt of your lives, your affairs.

They have absorbed everything that you gave them from childhood, and are now implementing it in their lives.

Moms can’t bear to live their own lives

Mothers of adult children often cannot live their lives. To fill it with power, you need to report to your friends, call people you know, and find something to do. For which there are many possibilities: a healthy way of life, fitness, work, training, travel, even if it’s not far, etc.

If your life will be different from the senses, your children will respect you more. On the one hand, it is possible that sometimes you will argue that you will not completely devote yourself to it. And shake hands in front of the hedgehog, tidy up the toys and tie the shoelaces, then get some light, behave civilly, don’t mess with the dirty lads and wear your hats in the cold. The fates are passing, we have already created our own little ones, and we... everyone continues to rebel against Father’s “yoke”

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Why the folding of the drains between us, grown-ups, and old-timers? And how can we understand each other?

• The main problems for young summer fathers and adult children are the problems of high school. Children who have grown up are faced with a constant internal conflict: love for their fathers and frustration, they are more often in trouble than ever, they are unreasonable and inevitably feel guilty. There were a lot of problems between us and our fathers, and between us and our elders – these were serious generational conflicts. The main problems of summer “fathers” and children who have grown up: Summer dads get “started up” after a century

• carefulness, humility, playfulness and categoricalness in judgments. In children
• no patience grows I have no strength to respond to such changes in a proper manner.

• The level of anxiety of summer fathers is rising above the maximum mark. And few people wonder what Unchecked anxiety is associated with illnesses of this century.
• Most summer fathers feel abandoned and abandoned. Children are our only support and hope. It is no longer apparent that some children are not a single thread connected with the outer world. Spending time with children and grandchildren is a great joy for summer dads. Ale All major problems are presented to us with sufficient justifications so that we forget to call or don’t bother to come to them. It's common to talk about your children outgrows supermundane control .

• In their own time, children who have grown up do not worry, like at school, to take care of their skin. It’s good that people of old age will simply forget about your national day.
• It’s worse if they forget to close the doors, taps, gas valves and make their way home. And, unfortunately, not all children feel the need to understand this age-old problem and “insure” their fathers.

• The psyche is turbulent. As a result of centuries-old changes in the brain, people in the old days react very sensitively to criticism and carelessly throw out words.
• Any doctor can call out a long image and bring tears. Children, complaining about their fathers’ “sweetness,” do not need to admit their dissatisfaction - they appear in evidence or get stuck behind the traditional scheme of “you are unbearable!”

• and “Well, why did I earn money wrong?!” You need to live peacefully with your fathers.
• Everyone knows that sleeping with two completely different families in the same room is important. Children who have grown up appreciate that grandmothers are there to nurse their children.

• It doesn’t matter how you smell it, whether you want to babysit, or whether the fathers of the late century have other plans. The situation often leads to conflict. It’s true that the reverse situation is not uncommon: grandmothers give up on them almost every day, avoiding the “uneasy matus” in the wrong whirlwind approach and “lacking” all the consequences of the “mother” » higher schemes. Whatever new-fangled trends are accepted by conservative summer dads in the bagnet.
• Their laminated trellises, old favorite armchairs, retro music, the best way to use a wine instead of a food processor. Move your dad - change the furniture, move, throw out “this terrible picture” or buy a dishwasher is practically impossible. Also suitable for bagnetting current image

• the lives of children, shameless youth, bad songs and manner of dressing. Daedals often skip thoughts about death among the Roses. Children, fighting, realize that in the summer season Rozmova about death is not a horror story to inflict on children, and not a “game” on their feelings, to “trade” themselves more respect (even if it happens), but it is a natural phenomenon.

When people are carried to death, they begin to be calmer than ever.

• And the reason is to transfer the problems of children associated with the death of their fathers – naturally. Drastic changes in the mood of the summer people are not easy

• “sweetness”, and even serious changes hormonal status and the body as a whole.
• Do not rush to get angry with your fathers - their mood and behavior will not always stay with them. It is impossible to constantly convey independence and “adulthood” to the senses. Don’t let your mom and dad bark for wearing a hat in the cold, pack pies “to go when you’re hungry” and criticize for being too frivolous external look
• – this is “work”. Be gentle - you will soon be deprived of a child for your fathers.

• Don’t try to change your fathers. It is impossible to love us as we are.
• Tell them for yourself - they deserve this stink. Be respectful to your fathers . Don't forget to call them and come visit them.

• Bring your onuks and take them away from your children, so that they can also call their grandparents. Stay healthy and be ready to help in the future.

• Regardless - you need to bring joy, help with mittyam vikon, or with the blessings of dahu. Come up with something to do for the dads. For example, buy him a laptop and start getting rich.
• Summer people feel like they are on their own. Take the time and patience to listen to their problems, hear about their day in the city, and provide criticism.

• Many grown-up children, who spend time with their parents, then feel guilty for their frustration until the end of their lives - “the hand reaches for the receiver, they want to hear a voice, but there is no one to call.” Choose words based on the fathers.

• Don’t embarrass them with their rudeness or accidentally missed “blunder” - the summer dads are spilling and hopeless. Provide the dads with maximum peace at the booth.
• But don’t even try to plant them in the house - I’ll take care of them, buy them food, pay for everything around the house, send them to a sanatorium for the summer, and they’ll always be dissatisfied. Everything is fine, great. If people are not burdened with any kind of work, the young people begin to become godless due to boredom.
• Therefore, to spare your fathers from important work, deprive them of their annoying bugs. Let the stinks feel their russetness and I will need it.

• Don’t let them revise their lessons from the onuks as much as they want, and prepare for the banquet evening. Be respectful - perhaps, you need to be even more intrusive for help due to your hopelessness.

Old men don't want to grow old.

And here you are - with a warm new blanket at the closet and tickets to a sanatorium for sick old people.

Figure out what they don’t know, and then learn from what. I’m already 36 years old, I’m hanging around in front of my dad.:

But my mother is constantly trying to read and control me, she checks how I was old and how I dress.

Anything that doesn’t suit her is scary.

How can we stop cooking?

Svetlana Kudryavtseva, Voronezh It confirms

psychologist Dmitro Voedilov The conflict between daughter and mother is from a series of eternal conflicts, the problems of son and father, brother and brother, etc. Mother and daughter - even close people and friends - cannot understand why conflicts and images arise.

For the sake of justice, it is necessary to say that some people are alive in the world. It’s not at all obligatory, since you are a daughter, you are inevitably guilty of conflict with your mother. Why blame welding between close people? Reasons for this. Confirmation to the mother that her daughter has a copy, continued.

And that means, to think and do things like that, mothers look the same way, get dressed themselves, etc. Because mother can’t or doesn’t want to understand that her daughter is different, not similar to her (and even her molding becomes more pronounced, school), conflicts begin..

For example, the mother respects the need to marry the children every now and then, and she always has to deal with the children. And the daughter changes people and people in the hopes of her prince and respects the fact that she needs to build a career right away, and then have children.

Because the mother was screaming to save pennies, and the daughter was trinking.

I bring the conflict again. A very close union of ties - emotional, spiritual

. The closer people are to you, the stronger they are.

Whose significance of conflicts is between “daughters and mothers”. There may be such conflicts (including obvious ones) in the future.

The woman understands that she is the man’s mother, a stranger, in essence, a human, and she begins to control herself, to stream..

“You’ve never respected me!”, “You can’t groom a child well, because you yourself...” About those things that are said in a passionate way, at the peak of emotion, and then we often scold and lose our innocence. For example, instead of saying: “Of course, I have no doubt that I am your most generous daughter in the world!” - you can say: “I need your help and encouragement.” If your mother is stubborn, just play along with her and take on the role of a happy daughter. And if welding gets into trouble, talk to your heart’s content. Rejoice with your mother most of all

. For example, ask how to properly plant Trojans in the garden or bake a branded cake. Even the mother respects that her daughter is her continuation, and the “continuation” respects the transmission of any information. Just so that your mother knows that you need her, even though your daughter has grown up a long time ago and lives in her homeland.

If you need to understand what it is doing, or how it is calling out positive emotions

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It's time for you to rozmovi.

The first thing you need to do is to accept your mother as she is.

You don’t have and won’t have anything else.

Think about what made mom special. It is possible that the nature of this behavior is explained by dramatic events and difficulties in life. If you have old images, it would be better to bring them into the light.

Marvel at your child’s injuries from the perspective of an adult, talk to your mother about them, or calmly.

Try not to pretend, but to get to the bottom of it, to understand what made your mother do such a thing.

Once these stages are completed, the fight against sickness in mothers will begin.

This is the case in almost all cases, where they often bark and do not understand one another.

Mothers try to control their children, but they joke

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and praise, such as they have never received. To improve the quality of your hair, you will have to completely change the spitting style, starting from a clean arch. Talk to your mother to your heart's content, tell her about your world and become closer to her.

Start to establish a dialogue that reveals the extreme stage of your passion, look for points, activities, and activities in general.

Then, gradually, there will be closeness, the couple will become accepting and trusting.

What can you do with a hundred-year-old? You can definitely say that the child and the child are grown up. in your own way.

This idea is formed according to the cultural characteristics of the state and this family.

Most often, your evidence of interaction with your fathers is played out. Since the mother constantly controlled her daughter, she also showed hyperopia to her children, and so on. If the mother’s situation is uncomfortable, it will be difficult to regulate.

Try to discuss her youth, how she grew up and grew up, how she realized the depth of understanding on the side of her father.

Why are you afraid that the hundred-year-olds and their mother are not getting along?

If there is no positive mutual interaction at all, it is possible to turn into a fake -

family psychologist

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It’s not obligatory to go to reception at the same time as mother. You can adjust the centipede from one side. If the child is still starting school, she must enlist the support of other relatives, especially if the mother has an antisocial way of life (she stays drunk, does not come home), which stagnates physical and moral violence.

Once you are satisfied with the sun, and you want to get some understanding in places, you can try self-pushing.

Listen to the joys of the lower pitches.

Instructing, teaching life is the main function of the father, and practically every mother is obliged to give out her duties.

The child, in her own way, has become mature and independent, wanting to figure out how things are going in this or that situation.

In order for the mothers to be kind, it is important to know the compromise here.

Be happy with your mother, show that her thoughts are really important, or give her a solemn look.

Let your mother tell you what is decided, what is accepted, is more important.

Be prepared to testify that something is wrong.

Enjoy your life

Show love, turbo that fate is even more important.